#AskALady “My Husband’s Work Wife Is Ruining Our Relationship”
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Elnora Booze sent in her letter reading;
My name is Elnora but you can call me El. I guess having work husband or wife is the popular trend now. I feel my husband’s “work wife” is about to ruin our marriage.
My husband has been working this plant job for about 4 years and he always comes home and has a story about this one woman that works with him.According to him they work on the same line, same shift, and always see each other. Which is totally fine with me, but here is where she is crossing the line. Her husband passed about a year ago. My husband and I were there for her in this time because she took her husband’s death hard.
Well in the past 6 mo she has been calling my husband outside of work hours to come help her with things at her home, bringing him lunch or snacks to work, just the little things I feel a wife should be responsible for. At first this appeared harmless but now it is creating an issue. I’ve even talked to my husband about the situation and he always brushes it off claiming she is still grieving.
Am I being insensitive or does this need to be nipped in the bed? Let me know Tru Lady
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