#AskALady “I Said No More Sex, He Freaks Out”

Every week I take the chance to answer some tea sippers questions on my #CatchTheTea Podcast and #CatchTheTeaAfterDark. The questions are always quite interesting. Not only do I give my feedback but my guest co host answer the questions as well.

This week’s letter is from Mercy Wells


Dear Tru Lady,

I’m considering taking my “friend with benefits ” to the next level but certain things are starting to bother me. The feelings seemed mutual about this change. We’ve had so much fun together. See we hangout outside of the bedroom and inside the bedroom if you know what I mean. ?

So I tell him I don’t want to have sex until we figure us out. Cause I want to make sure something is between us besides the sex. He was literally pissed off when I said this to him. He claims he doesn’t understand why we have to stop having sex. He said a few things making it seem like I’m obligated to bust my legs open. We’ve argued about this for days and I’m getting fed up.

Since I’m angry at him and we’re not having sex everything about him is starting to annoy me…what do I do?

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Author: kgfranklin