#AskALady “Jocing My Lil Baby”

Every week I take the chance to answer some tea sippers questions on my #CatchTheTea Podcast and #CatchTheTeaAfterDark. The questions are always quite interesting. Not only do I give my feedback but my guest co host answer the questions as well.

This week’s letter is from Roger Chestand ;

Whoa wats up Lady I really need your help. My girlfriend of 2 years was living a little wreck less and soon got caught up and was arrrested for stealing clothes, shoes, and money from her job. But like a woman she taking her charge. Now she was facing five years but will on do three. I told her I would hold her down cause I love her peanut head ass. She was sentenced in October and has been on lock ever since. Her homegirl has been a little close….a little too close for comfort if you ask me.

 

Well for the holidays I was….how y’all say….in my feelings and shit. Missing my bae. Now out the blue her home girl came by the crib night before Christmas eve wanting to hang out cause it was a big party going on. so I was like cool. I wasn’t a fool so I invited a few of my patnas. We turnt the whole night . she kept feeding us alcohol all night. Shots here, mixed drinks, whoopdy woo. We’re men so we can hold our liquor, but shawty was LIT! So lit she needed a ride.

Well of course I told her I would take her home. We in the car and Lil mama couldn’t keep her hands off me. I mean she touching and kissing a nigga like she was my ol lady. She ended up giving me head while driving. I’m a man at the end of the day so I ain’t stop her. We pulled to her crib and of course I went in and smashed. I don’t know if it was the alcohol or me being caught up in my feelings.

Now I’m feeling fucked up about it cause my bae ain’t been gone a good six months and I’m out her fckn off and with her friend. I started avoiding shawty cause she immediately started blowing me up. She was really bugging. Meanwhile I’m tryna figure out how to tell me girl cause I love her but I know I fucked up.

A day before my next visit with bae her friend pops up! She tells me my bae had been cheating on me the last year of our relationship and she already linked up with a chick behind bars All this messed my head up! But I wasn’t sure if I could trust what she was saying. I canceled the visit cause I just don’t know what to do. Our next visit is coming up and I know I need to sort this out. What do I do?

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