#AskALady “I’m The Pastor’s Side Chick”

Every week I take the chance to answer some tea sippers questions on my #CatchTheTea Podcast and #CatchTheTeaAfterDark. The questions are always quite interesting. Not only do I give my feedback but my guest co host answer the questions as well.

This week’s letter is from Pastor’s Sidechick;


Dear Tru Lady,

I try to live my life on the right path but for the past 6months something has been hendering my blessing and I dont know how to get rid of it.

For the past 6months I have been sleeping with my pastor. I was apart of the divorce club we have at church and pastor started working with me one on one. One night I was home sick and missed one of the meetings. He came by to check on me. Things soon turned inappropriate with a bunch of kissing and rubbing. I stopped him from going any further because he does have a wife.

Well about a week after that incident we tried to apologize to one another for our actions after the divorce club meeting but the apology went left. We were caught up in our emotions and had sex right there in his office. When they say sin feels good they are not lying. Since that night we have met twice a week at my house. I can’t shake him. I’ve pleaded with him that we stop but it never happens.

I need this to end, what can I do. I know Im part of the issue but I’m confused.

Click play and check out my answer below  1:30:29

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