Ask A Lady: “My Boyfriend’s Sister is Sabotaging Our Relationship”

Every week I take the chance to answer some tea sippers questions on my #CatchTheTea Podcast. The questions are always quite interesting. Not only do I give my feedback but my guest co host answer the questions as well.

This week’s letter is from Krystal;

Dear Tru Lady,

Okay, so, me and my boyfriend have been together for a little over a year. This past summer I met his family when he took me to their annual 4th of July get together.

I got along with everyone and especially clicked with his sister because we have a lot in common. We hung out here and there throughout the summer, and since I work nights I even watched her son until she could get him into daycare. However, recently, she completely flipped out and started telling my boyfriend that she always sees me with different guys while he is at work. She said that I don’t really have a job and that I just use that as an excuse to go out and sleep around. It is like she just completely turned on me.

Me and boyfriend have a great relationship and we have never been happier, but his sister’s constant harassment is stressing me out. I know that as I get further in my pregnancy that won’t be good so how do we get her to stop being so meddlesome and detrimental to the life we are trying to build? My boyfriend tried talking to her but that only made her ramp up her attacks on me.

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