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Catch The Tea With A Tru Lady

#AskALady “We’ve Been married 5 years, but he has a 3 year old son”

Every week I take the chance to answer some tea sippers questions on my #CatchTheTea Podcast and #CatchTheTeaAfterDark. The questions are always quite interesting. Not only do I give my feedback but my guest co host answer the questions as well.

This week’s letter is from Ronda;

Dear Tru Lady,

I’m just frustrated with my husband. We’ve been married for five years and 3 months ago he was served child support papers for a three year old boy! He claims to have no knowledge of this child or the woman who is seeking support. Tru Lady I’m not sure what I’ll do if this child is for him….we don’t even have our own children. I really can’t make heads or tails of this situation. Do you have any advice for me?

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#AskALady “I Cheated With Her Sister Accidentally “

Every week I take the chance to answer some tea sippers questions on my #CatchTheTea Podcast and #CatchTheTeaAfterDark. The questions are always quite interesting. Not only do I give my feedback but my guest co host answer the questions as well.

This week’s letter is from keep me anonymous;

Dear Tru Lady, I’m really going through it right now. I cheated on my girl and I want to say accidentally but i was with her sister. We fell on hard times. I lost my job and have been trying to get back right ever since. So we moved out of our house and moved in with her sister. She was very welcoming towards us and understood our situation. So we’ve been here with her for about 2 months. They both work so Ive been cleaning up and cooking with no issue. Well my baby has been working over time. one night I was in our room checking email sending out a few applications and her sister bust in the room. She was naked and kept making advances towards me. I kept pushing her away but she was agressive and I was turned on and I fell victim to her actions. We had sex and I was disappointed in me. Since that moment we’ve been having sex eveytime my girl has to work overtime. Her sister has threaten me and told me if we stop having sex she’s going to kick us out. Man wat do I do. I know its my fault cause but this is a dangerous game.

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#AskALady: “ I’m a Cougar On The Prowl”

Every week I take the chance to answer some tea sippers questions on my #CatchTheTea Podcast and #CatchTheTeaAfterDark. The questions are always quite interesting. Not only do I give my feedback but my guest co host answer the questions as well.

This week’s letter is from Gwen S.;

Dear Tru Lady

Tru Lady I think I’m turning into a cougar. My husband of 15 years cheated on me numerous times and we finally got a divorce. In the midst of my sadness I met this young man name Abraham. Who is 24 with an old soul. I’m 40. All I wanted was some fun to get over this slump but Abraham is pushing me to be in a relationship and I’m not with it. I’ve tried telling him this but he’s not listening. How can I leave this situation.

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#AskALady: “She Paid my way through school, But I don’t want her anymore “

Every week I take the chance to answer some tea sippers questions on my #CatchTheTea Podcast and #CatchTheTeaAfterDark. The questions are always quite interesting. Not only do I give my feedback but my guest co host answer the questions as well.

This week’s letter is from Jay B.;

Dear Tru Lady

I wanna leave my girl but there are so many strings attached. When started dating about 3 years ago. I was at my lowest and my girl helped me. She put me through welding classes at I’ve been getting to the bag. But I’m not happy with her. I work hard to make up for her helping but it doesn’t matter. She always throwing what she did for me in my face. I take away jobs to be away from her. I want to leave but I still feel obligated after all she’s done for me. Help me make this decision.

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#AskALady: “ I Love Him But He Can’t Mentally Stimulate Me”

Every week I take the chance to answer some tea sippers questions on my #CatchTheTea Podcast and #CatchTheTeaAfterDark. The questions are always quite interesting. Not only do I give my feedback but my guest co host answer the questions as well.

This week’s letter is from Kita K.;

Dear Tru Lady

How can I make my man see eye to eye with me? I know women mature faster than men but my guy doesn’t stimulate me mentally or emotionally. He’s a sweet guy takes me out from time to time. He’s even cooked for me but that’s wat conversations are sparse and are values and opinions on alotta things are different. What do I do?

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#AskALady “I’ve Been Single too Long”

Every week I take the chance to answer some tea sippers questions on my #CatchTheTea Podcast and #CatchTheTeaAfterDark. The questions are always quite interesting. Not only do I give my feedback but my guest co host answer the questions as well.

This week’s letter is from Claudi Z..;

Tru Lady

I love the blog.I see your post all the time in Glam and Gossip. But I need some advice. I really feel like it is time for me to settle down but I don’t have any options to settle down with. I’ve been looking everywhere and nobody has been checking for me. I’m 37 with one daughter, who is seven. I haven’t been with anyone since me and her father went seperate ways. What do you suggest I do. i really feel like it’s just time for me to find love. God send me anybody.

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#AskALady “Pregnant for the Wrong Man”

Every week I take the chance to answer some tea sippers questions on my #CatchTheTea Podcast and #CatchTheTeaAfterDark. The questions are always quite interesting. Not only do I give my feedback but my guest co host answer the questions as well.

This week’s letter is from Veronica T.;

Girl Tru Lady I’m feeling really low right now….I recently found out I was pregnant…going on 3 mo. All my life I didn’t think I can have children because of a few issues with me so this child is a blessing But my child was conceived with the wrong person. I’ve been sleeping with this man for over a year and he is married. Yes I made the conscious decision to sleep around with him and he felt comfortable sleeping with me because I said I couldn’t have children. Now at this point I’m pregnant and I’m scared to tell him because I think he’s going to put up a fight. I want this child. I mean all my life I thought I couldn’t have a child of my own I accepted this but I was also hurt by this. At the age 35 I have an opportunity to have a child. What can I do? Is it sad that I am mentally preparing to have this baby alone and raise my child alone. Just give me a bit of advice.

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#AskALady “Ass.U.Me”

Every week I take the chance to answer some tea sippers questions on my #CatchTheTea Podcast and #CatchTheTeaAfterDark. The questions are always quite interesting. Not only do I give my feedback but my guest co host answer the questions as well.

I’m trying something new. I teamed up with Eminence Photography & Videography with bringing the actual letter to life. This week’s letter comes from Concerned Friend ;

Please Keep my anonymous BUT A Tru Lady I heard you give side chick advice so I need your help. My best friend came into town for a weekend. Instead of her waiting until I got off work to come to my house she was already there when I got home, waiting with my husband. These two have always been close but this bothered me. I walk into our home and I hear the two of them laughing and carrying on. I walk through the house to find them and they were in our bedroom sitting on our bed. Now I didn’t see anything inappropriate but it felt wrong. It has been bothering me what do I do.

Check out the reenactment of this letter below.

Filming: Eminence Photography & Videography
Editing: Vintvge Prints
Actors:

Mel: Myka S.
Mel’s Husband: Chico H
Mercedes: Annette
Coworker 1: Jae F

Coworker 2: Kawonda .
Coworker 3: Javon
Coworker 4: Jasmine J
Coworker 1: Jae F

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Music

Holli2x
Love , Sounds , & Rendezvous

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#AskALady “Bae Friend”

Every week I take the chance to answer some tea sippers questions on my #CatchTheTea Podcast and #CatchTheTeaAfterDark. The questions are always quite interesting. Not only do I give my feedback but my guest co host answer the questions as well.

I’m trying something new. I teamed up with Eminence Photography & Videography with bringing the actual letter to life. This week’s letter comes from Jeanelle Griffin;

 

I think I have played the game long enough and I’m looking to settle down. But I need to make a decision ASAP out of the few men I have been “boo loving” with since cuffing season is vastly approaching.

I’ve been juggling three different guys for about a year, I’ve only had sex with two out of the three. They are all special to me in their own way and two of them or pressing for a relationship.

Guy number one stays so far away but has been there for me no matter what I go through. He calls me daily. We talk about everything under the sun. He’s even helped me out of a few binds. We’ve visited each other about 4 times out of this year. We haven’t had sex at all but there is definitely some type of connection. He claims if we make “us” official that he would considered moving closer in order to make our relationship work.

Then there is guy number two, who gives me life. We hang out. Movies, shopping together, a few baecays here and there. Not to mention some good sexing. The only downfall with him is communication is horrible. Conversations are cool but they are always about clothes, Jordan, video games. Shit I’m not interested in but talk about only because of him. Now he isn’t pressing for a relationship but he is an option.

Then Mr Three. He’s an ex who has been hounding for a second chance I haven’t explain to him about my situationships, but he is aware there is someone else taking up my time besides him. He was a good boyfriend, but I just couldn’t deal with his lack of motivation. He didn’t want to set goals and was just complacent with life. Since we’ve have been broken up he’s done a complete turnaround. Wanting to make and chage in his life and actually doing something about it. I lowkey still have feelings for him, and, yet again I’m not sure what to do.

Can you kind me in the right direction?

We make Jeanelle’s question come to life. Check it out below tea sippers.

Filming: Eminence Photography & Videography
Editing: Vintvge Prints
Actors:

Jeanelle: Latesha J
Long Distance Bae: Soul Baby G
Sex Bae: Spade Ace
Ex Bae: Jamarcus D

Music

“Pull Up” Maine ft Jet http://ow.ly/ZRFO30ca3Bb
“Swisha 2 Sweet” Soul Baby Groove http://ow.ly/A4vi30ca3JV

What advice do you have for Jeanelle tea sippers? Comment below. Check out my advice below 1hr:17min.